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Understanding Anxiety with Warmth & Compassion

  • Writer: Miriam Westaway
    Miriam Westaway
  • Jan 24
  • 2 min read

Updated: Jan 25

Anxiety is one of those experiences that feels incredibly personal, yet it’s something so many people quietly carry. If you’ve ever felt your heart race for no clear reason, found your thoughts looping at 2 a.m., or felt a knot in your stomach before even starting your day, you’re far from alone. Anxiety is a deeply human response — not a flaw, not a failure, and certainly not something you have to face without support.


Why Anxiety Shows Up

Anxiety often appears when your mind is trying to protect you. It’s your internal alarm system, designed to keep you safe. Sometimes, though, that alarm becomes a little too sensitive. Everyday situations — a conversation, a decision, a change — can start to feel overwhelming. That doesn’t mean you’re “overreacting.” It means your system is working overtime.


What Anxiety Can Feel Like

People experience anxiety in different ways, but some common signs include:

  • A sense of restlessness or unease

  • Racing thoughts that won’t settle

  • Tension in the body

  • Difficulty concentrating

  • Feeling on edge or easily overwhelmed

These sensations can be uncomfortable, but they’re also signals — your mind and body asking for care, not criticism.


You Don’t Have to Manage It Alone

One of the most powerful things to remember is that anxiety is manageable, and support can make a meaningful difference. Talking with a therapist offers a space where you can slow down, understand what’s happening beneath the surface, and learn tools that help you feel more grounded. Therapy isn’t about “fixing” you — it’s about helping you reconnect with your strengths, your resilience, and your sense of calm.


Small Steps Can Make a Big Difference

Even gentle shifts can help you feel more anchored:

  • Taking a few slow breaths

  • Pausing to notice what’s around you

  • Reaching out to someone you trust

  • Giving yourself permission to rest

These aren’t solutions to everything, but they’re ways of telling your nervous system, “You’re safe. You can soften.”


For practical techniques on how to help manage anxiety symptoms, please see my downloadable ebook ‘Calm Within’ 🦋 https://payhip.com/b/6XD90


 
 
 

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